Welcome to the Friends of Tabby blog. We are a group of women who are gathering in support of our dear friend, Tabby, who is in the process of recovering from multiple injuries sustained when she was hit by a car while out jogging.
Tabby is a courageous, thoughtful, funny, dedicated, loving and much-loved friend. She is an inspiration to us as a woman, mother, and professional. She faces months and months of rehabilitation and therapy, and her family has had to relocate out of state in order to be with her while she rebuilds her body and her life.
There are two main purposes for this blog: (1) To help Tabby's family financially, and (2) to provide ongoing emotional support to Tabby (i.e., leave comments! Lots of comments!)
You can find information on how to donate in the "Donate Now" section in the right column. One hundred percent of donations will be turned over to Tabby and her family periodically as a group gift from "FriendsOfTabby" in order to help defray her medical expenses and her family's living expenses.
Just to put our fundraising in perspective... Tabby's mother informed us that the driver who hit Tabby had only $50,000 in insurance coverage, which would not cover the costs of Tabby's first night in the hospital. She faces a minimum of 6 months of intensive therapy. She has had three surgeries so far, and there may be more. Her husband had to quit his job and move their four-year old daughter to a new state so that they can be with Tabby. They are facing uncertain and untold financial hurdles. So we appreciate any help you can offer them, and thank you in advance for your kindness and generosity.
Please also consider this a guestbook or notebook of sorts, and leave comments for Tabby to read as she recovers. Feel free to email a blog post even. Tell us how you know Tabby, how she has impacted your life, why you love her.
Finally, a word on privacy. In an effort to respect Tabby's privacy (and because she cannot yet speak for herself on this issue), we will not use her real name or family name. We ask that you refrain from publishing any information that might reveal her identity, where she lives, her husband or child's name, etc. We reserve the right to delete any material that contains any such personally identifying information.
Thank you, friends, for being here. You are amazing -- as individuals, and as an incredibly caring and giving community.
Tabby you are a special person! You are an awsome mom! You and I have bonded over how alike out DD's are in some of their behaviors. You have given me confindence and encouragment in parenting my DD. You are so sweet! Can't wait to hear more good news on your recovery.
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ReplyDeleteTabby - you are such an amazing mom and person! You are always there with an encouraging word and the voice of experienced adoptive parenting. Your story has been an inspiration to me as I follow a few years behind you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you continue your recovery as will DH and DD. Can't wait to "hear" your encouraging voice again!
ReplyDeleteTabby - You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you have a speedy recovery.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you, Tabby! You are so loved, admired and greatly missed. May you continue to get better and better each day. We look forward to "seeing" you soon! Hugs & prayers, my friend. XOXO, Lori
ReplyDeleteThinking of you, Tabby! Can't wait til you are totally healed. You are amazing! Ali
ReplyDeleteTabby, you are a fierce and amazing warrior as a mommy and as a woman. Keep it up with your recovery. We love you and miss you in our community.
ReplyDeleteWe miss you so much. Your wisdom and perspective as a mother are sorely missed in our discussions. We can think "what would Tabby say" but its not the same. Get well honey, we are all rooting for you!
ReplyDeleteI think of you and your family often. I hope you continue to recover. Your wisdom is sorely missed. Continue to get well. We will be here rooting for you.
ReplyDeleteContinuing to send warmest wishes for your recovery. We miss your voice. Thinking of you. Shan
ReplyDeleteTabby you are such an amazing an courageous woman, mother, friend. You are sorely missed in our community, with all of us praying and cheering you on. I feel so blessed to know you and am amazed at your strength and courage. Keep up the great work getting better!
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ReplyDeleteAlways thinking of you and your family. I sorely miss your voice and words of wisdom. I am praying for you everyday! Cheering you on always!
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Tabby your wisdom and support has touched us all and your strength and spirit are an inspiration. Please know our prayers and energy are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteWishing you the warmest wishes for your recovery. We miss your voice of wisdom on the boards. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and I look forward to your return.
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Cutiger
Praying for a quick recovery for you Tabby! You have always been such a great source of support for me and I very much look forward to seeing you back in our community very soon!
ReplyDeleteMuch love and tons of prayers to you and your family as you begin to heal.
"lmpearso"
Tabby, You have provided so much support and advise to so many of us on a regular basis. We are all so thankful! My thoughts are with you and your family. I look forward to hearing more updates about your amazing recovery. Get well soon--we miss you on the boards.
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Francesca (fmo)
Oh sweet friend, you have been greatly missed. I hope and pray that you continue to grow stronger and stronger each day. I will keep you in my thoughts...
ReplyDeleteJaime (irisheyez)
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you strength for a speedy recovery, and a quick return to the boards - we miss you!
ReplyDeleteDoelynn
So sorry to hear about your accident. Praying that you heal quickly and recover completely! Your presence is missed and it's obvious that you are well-loved and cherished by many people! Restful peace to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteAngie (Faith2911)
Tabby! Hang in there! You are doing such a great job with your recovery and I cant wait to hear of your continued progress.
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Suzanna
Tabby, you're a strong woman and you'll get through this. I'm praying for your recovery. Take it a day at a time.
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AlisonBC
Tabby, keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers as you move forward through your recovery.
ReplyDeleteJenna (Jennamac80)
Tabby, I am praying for your complete and speedy recovery. Youre a strong woman, don't forget! Your presence and thoughtfulness is missed every day. Best wishes, racheljl
ReplyDeleteThinking about you Tabby! I hope each day gets easier.
ReplyDeleteSending strength, Liddy
Sending an extra prayer your way! Much love and lots of blessings!
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You, DH, and DD are in my thoughts and prayers. Glad you are now closer to home and hope recovery goes smoothly and quickly. We miss you!
ReplyDeleteLori (loriahc)
Tabby,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about your accident. You are a terrific person and a great mom. Sending love and prayers to you, DH, and DD.
-bean24
Tabby,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about your accident. Sending prayers and love to you, DH, and DD.
-bean24
Thinking of you and your family and hoping that you recover fully and quickly.
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Tabby,
ReplyDeleteI am thinking of you and your family. Wishing that you have a speedy recovery. We all miss you and your encouraging words. Sending lots of hugs and prayers to you and your family!
Bonnie (pnb1024)
Thinking of you Tabby!!!
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